To generate a spirit of mutual curiosity, respect and appreciation among those of differing political / issue perspectives.

1. To bring forth the trust and courage to generously express and actively appreciate one another’s authentic revealing of heartfelt values, principles and sense of purpose.

2. To listen generously and actively support the discovery of common interest and concern.

3. To be open and curious about all perspectives and see what can be learned from listening to one another, rather than debating differing “opinions” on any topic or issue.

4. To inspire a sense of openness, willingness and even partnership for further connecting or cooperating in some way.

5. To evoke a direct experience of an authentic, meaningful and rewarding conversation.

6. To foster a sense of confidence and willingness in participants to take initiative to reach out to those they usually avoid.

• Treat all members with respect, empathy, 

• Differences in opinions and experiences are natural; approach disagreements with curiosity and a willingness to learn.

• Hate speech, discriminatory comments, or personal attacks will not be tolerated. THGI is a place that fosters and invites difference and people are willing to actively reach and connect across divides.

• Take responsibility for the quality of your participation and the quality of the conversation by noticing what’s happening and actively support getting yourself and others back “on purpose” when needed.

• Approach conversations with intention and curiosity.

• Use a trauma informed lens. Be mindful of what you are sharing. If you need support beyond what the group can offer, please seek appropriate professional help.

• Seek Alignment rather than Agreement: Alignment is shared intention, whereas agreement is having a shared belief or opinion. In this conversation we look for alignment primarily and simply appreciate that we will disagree on some beliefs and opinions.

• Share content, ask questions, and participate in discussions that align with improve mental health with a specialization in sexual, reproductive health, relationships, and trauma. We are dedicated to turning suffering into strength, a purpose that guides us in every aspect of our work.

• Avoid self-promotion unless it’s directly relevant to the group’s focus and approved by moderators.

• Respect the privacy of others by not sharing personal details, stories, screen shots, or anything discussed in this group outside of the community.

• Remember that your voice matters. Every question, insight, or contribution adds to the greater whole of our community.

• Be mindful of the balance between giving and receiving—support others just as you would like to be supported.

• Share accurate, thoughtful information, and credit sources when appropriate.

• Avoid spreading misinformation or making unfounded claims.

• Uphold a professional and ethical tone in all discussions.

• You are invited to be self-monitoring and take responsibility for helping keep purpose and intention of THGI community to be unheld

• Moderators are here to maintain the integrity of this space. If a post or comment violates these rules, it may be removed without notice.

• Members who repeatedly disregard these guidelines may be removed from the group.

• You are invited to be self-monitoring and take responsibility for helping keep purpose and intention of THGI community to be unheld.

• Your monthly scholar fees grant you exclusive access to the resources, events, and educational content provided by THGI. These fees are for your personal education and engagement only, ensuring that all scholars have a meaningful and tailored experience.

• We trust and rely on an honor system as part of our community values. We ask that you do not share your access to courses, replays, or other THGI content with others. This helps us maintain the integrity of the learning environment and ensure fairness for all scholars.

Members who violate the Student Guidelines of The Healing Group Institute will face immediate removal from the program. Such actions demonstrate a breach of the standards and values we uphold, compromising the integrity and safety of our community. As a result, individuals removed for guideline violations will be permanently ineligible to rejoin the Institute. This policy ensures a respectful and professional environment conducive to learning and growth for all members.